According to the ancient sacred tantric texts a lingam massage could only ever be carried out by a Eunuch(another man), see CHAPTER IX OF THE AUPARISHTAKA. If a woman carried out the ritual it is called “Tantric Mouth Congress” and she obviously was not allowed to use her hands, because she would be using them for her own glorification. So that is the major difference of having your lingam massage by a woman or man.
Ancient tantrikas believed that the longer you are able to have your lingam massaged the faster you will be able to learn ejaculationSo having your lingam masaged by another man would make it easier to gain control. The most important advice I can give to any eunuch is to take huge big deep breaths. Accept the pleasure, surrendering, and allowing stillness and patience. It’s that simple. Every second is a celebration of righteousness. Male to Male Lingam massage is an art. It’s something you have to really work at and practice but it worth the effort, believes me.
The male to male lingam massage are for you to strengthen the anal sphincter muscle and prostate which are the centers of control. Remember that this is PRACTICE and the goal is to develop a skill, so be patient with yourself.
YOU CAN EVEN GIVE YOURSELF A MALE LINGAM MASSAGE
1. lying down, bring yourself CLOSE to the point of EJACULATION 2. Squeezing the anal sphincter muscles as tight as you can, as if you are trying to stop yourself having a shit. 3. At the same time, the tip of the tongue is placed at the top of the mouth 4. Try to suck like you are a sacred whore. I KNOW IT SOUNDS A BIT SILLY BUT TRY IT. 5. Massage the palm of your left hand into the area surrounding your third eye (the area between you eyebrows) while you begin to contract the anal sphincter muscles. Squeeze these muscles very tightly AND THEN COMPLETELY RELAX
Hartman and Fithian, who were pioneering sex researchers, concluded that men who can LAST for 20 minutes can make love for as long as they want with their partners. The most important advice I can give to any-one who wants to wank for longer is that the secret is drinking lots of water with a touch of lemon, and loads of honey, and some drops of olive oil in each glass, and most importantly dance yourself silly, until you fall down, dance, dance, dance, and then fall down again, then you can cunt-inue. Huge big deep breaths in through your nose, and out of your mouth. While urinating, practice releasing in spurts, cutting of the fluid in small amounts until you’re done.