333 men describe how they like their Ha Penis Massaged

Over a period of 7 years every man who wanted to join any of my male massage groups on meetup was invited to answer a very pioneering question. Which was “how to you like to have your penis massaged”. There has been nearly 3,000 replies. I have learned so much from each and every word. I have kept a list. Below are some of them.

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  1. Start of with slow and sensual touching of my body. Licking light biting maybe. Taking my cloths of slowly and then using your fingers and tongue touching and licking my penis. Taking your time. Not rushing
  2. I love light touch on my penis with slow strokes, moving my foreskin all the way up and down. I like sensations to build slowly and to enjoy each and every stroke. I like my balls to be cupped but not pulled on. I like to build up sensation slowly over time and then release for a minute or so to calm my excitement
  3. I like to stay on my fours and let my package accessible hanging between my legs spread. I have big low hangers so this position suits me very well to expose the whole thing. Then I enjoy a guy or several guys to stroke/rub on my manhood.
  4. the best way to have my manhood massaged would be by those who are sensitive themselves, so that the ultimate aim is not necessarily for ejaculation, but a celebration on the general area around the manhood. Eroticism, fantasy, and fetishism play a big part in this also – if there is a mind connection from the massager, they will understand that it is all about sensuality, edging, & maintaining the feeling. No orgasm is better!
  5. I like it slow and light. Fingertips gliding. The part of the penis where the head connects to the shaft, with all that sensitivity. I like it massaged in a circular motion. I love my balls being played with. Grabbed, squeezed and pulled a bit. Each ball individually given attention to. I like tickling sensations and a soft gliding touch.
  6. I would like a sensual and gradual massage to my penis. It needs to start by creating connections with the person, then gently starting touching my body and closely move to my penis. I would like it to be massaged gently e softly so that the pleasure can last as long as possible.
  7. I prefer to massage however when My manhood is being massaged I like to feel the touch is confident and respectful. A blend of tactile, soft, gentle with contrasting strength and firmness. I like to feel the masseur hands have total control
  8. I’d like for my penis to be touched with a variation of forces and textures, with hands that are firm and slow and can control the twitching and feel the veins and curves around the head. I’d like the hands to continuously take me to the point of finishing so I could revel in the moment.
  9. Firmly but slowly to start, becoming increasingly fast and then slow again. Although I am circumcised, I find the head is very sensitive to the touch, so I tend to prefer having the shaft massaged.
  10. I love to have it done with intention. If not done by myself, i like the giver to inner connect with me and respond with the type of touch he feels would give the most pleasure at the time, and change that as much as needed. Hopefully he will enjoy giving the massage and find some pleasure in doing so as well.
  11. I’d like to be treated with respect and with a gentle, sensitive touch.
  12. Get me hard with light, full-body caresses (and a little tickling), then begin gently stroking my well lubed cock until I’m close, then go back to sensual body contact. Repeat this cycle over and over, until I can’t hold back anymore and climax. Thank you.
  13. gentle feather like touches around the lower abdomen and inner thighs to get aroused and then apply a pressured touch on the scrotum after a slow movement from the anus to the scrotum continuing up to the shaft using the palms of the hands without grabbing it repeating it a few times, then with both hands touching the thighs a gentle continues strokes from the inner thighs closing on the penis from both sides and lock the hands on it then releasing just enough for both thumbs to reach and massage the area close to the anus and rising up to the scrotum to shaft and gently massaging the glans
  14. I would like the first touch to be like an accident and it is brushed by left, right, so that the touching is brief and unintended, then slowly the growth of the member asks for its muscle to be touched in more depth
  15. currently I say I like to have it massaged in the usual way. But I would like to learn different techniques and how to build pleasure energy without just cumming being the focus.
  16. I enjoy long, slow strokes, followed by or along with massage around the base and also underneath the balls. I enjoy alternating light and firm grip, and light tickling around the tip.
  17. every inch and every part must be touched with care and softness, the body is a temple but we live in our heads.
  18. I want to feel free, without restrictions, but with the natural respect of my body. It’s important to really enjoy, and for me the amazing will be to learn about senses I don’t know on my body.
  19. I love it slow and long strokes, not too much emphasis on the head because it’s very sensitive. while the shaft is being stroked I love more attention to be on my balls, that’s where the magic happens.
  20. I like to have a lot of focus on my testicles and the head of my penis. Tugging, stroking and a light pulling of my balls arouses and prepares the penis for further massage. Retracting the foreskin feels excellent, especially when using oil to massage the shaft, and that in combination with the ball pulling gets my close quickly.
  21. Having experienced tantric massage I’ve learnt that massaging the lingham is actually so much more than what I previously thought. It needs to be slow and caressing, using a variety of techniques not just the obvious. Every time can be different but each time care and consideration to how it feels must be given. Never rushed – always respectful and always with the aim of ultimate pleasure till the end.
  22. the head and I only like this played with at point of ejaculation. I am cut so prefer with lube or spit. I also love my balls and gooch played with. I don’t like it too hard
  23. starting off slow, taking by stroking and touching areas around the shaft and sack in order to arouse the area, then when the time is right, taking hold and exploring the various pleasure points with care and precision
  24. I would like it massaged slowly with lots of love and affection. I like to feel relaxed so taking it slowly helps. I am extremely sensitive so dont often stimulate the glans soo much.
  25. I want the masseur to be totally dedicated to his task, to perceive every little reaction and that perception positively influences the further massage; I want the masseur to find out what I like without the need for words
  26. I like to have my manhood massaged sensually and slowly, taking time to explore every ridge and curve of it. I also like to have my perineum stimulated and my balls gently stroked.
  27. I have recently started rethinking the whole think, something felt wrong with the way I was doing things . My relationships with other men need to be improved and so does the way I deal with my manhood . I find this question a little bit difficult to answer… but I am willing to explore and improve 🙏🏼
  28. Slow and relaxed is best, in tune with my body. Having a real, authentic connection with the guy massaging it, bringing us closer together and into a deep tranquil like state where both our time and worries simply escape us for what seems like eternity.
  29. In a sensual and enlightening way which transcends the day to day and helps cultivate a higher sense of consciousness.
  30. Soft and silky, slow strokes with a gradual rise to a lustrous climax.
  31. I’d like to have it massaged slowly as part of a full body massage. Ma body to body light touch, light oily strokes, circling the head, lightly massaging the scrotum, massaging the rosebud and the paranium. Then finishing with light pumpin
  32.  The most important thing to me when receiving massage is trust and consent. It is more of a spiritual connection than pure techniques.
  33. I like it to be caressed gently and slowly whilst rubbing my balls and build up a rhythm paying particular attention to the head of the penis then stroked faster and harder all the time squeezing and striking my balls
  34.  I had my first tantric massage last week and I felt an incredible surge of energy and confidence afterwards. It felt like my penis was being open up like a flower and my seed flowed in a flow I’ve never experienced before. I love having my rosebud massaged unlike many men I am not at all squealing about having my anus touched or gently probed.
  35. I love the area around it to be kissed and worshipped, making me crave deeper intimacy and long for more. I like to be aroused by the utter control of my pleasure that another person has.
  36.  I like my manhood massaged nice and slow lovingly and teased in a way that i enjoy. I want my bollocks to be swept with gentle strokes and flicks working all the way to the top of my lingham.
  37. I like being touched gently but firmly especially around the top. I don’t produce any precum so some moisturizer would have to be applied beforehand. I like being undressed by another man so I can just lay down and chill and enjoy being taken care of.
  38. Usually with restraint – I don’t like anything rushed or too heavy-handed. I also prefer to have the massage done in steps – with pauses so that the enjoyment can build but ebb and flow.
  39. I like it to be touched sensually and stroked slowly at first with lots of lubrication. Use one hand or two making sure to touch the tip too. Swirl the precum around as much as possible. Fondle my balls as well gently.
  40. By a women, nice and slow, edging, bringing me to climax and then stopping multiple times, eye contact, saying my name, whispering in my ear, telling me how good I feel, how much they want me to orgasm
  41. I like to have my penis massaged slowly and softly with plenty of oil being used. Best to start from behind whilst I am lying on my front with hands caressing my balls first and then slowly working towards my cock.
  42. with care, and with loving touches. stroked gently then switching to a nice tight grip. Rubbing my cockhead with a fingertip swirling my precum around the tip. Touching my manhood from my balls all the way up my shaft – every inch stroked and caressed with one hand or two or even three or four. the more touching the better my manhood feels.
  43.  very empathic individual that gets as much pleasure being massaged as I do giving massage..lots of endurance and love to be edged into pleasure.
  44. slowing along the shaft. the head is ultra sensitive. massage it slow with rhythm. let look into the guys eyes while he strokes my tool
  45. Love it to be covered with warm massage oil, starting slow with a firm grip, long strokes right down to the base, getting faster and rougher and firmer with each stroke.
  46.  gentle and sensuous, concentrating on the most sensitive areas. when it’s done right it’s like nothing else exists in the universe in that moment
  47. slow light warm gentle strokes from soft hands. I like to be teased from the balls in a circular motion and then have that energy slowly travel up my shaft to the head of my cock and filtered to my entire head until all that warm energy goes back
  48.  gently and very slowly, feeling the gentleness of the touch
  49. Very slowly with a gradual build up, starting by moving closer and closer, with gentle brush of the hand against the penis to build excitement. Then nice and slowly.
  50. I enjoy connection, being sensual, sexual group energy with a touch of hedonism. The way I would like to be massaged is slow, steady long strokes, synchronizing breath, fully present and playful.
  51. Gently stroke with warm and firm hands. Stop when I’m on edge and use my pre cum to start stroking again.
  52. I like my manhood to be handle gently with a smooth touch in the beginning. As I work into the feeling and connection of being touch, I want more rapid movements and aggressive patterns of motions
  53. I would like to feel confortable, woman hand’s that gives me a sensual touch. I would like to be in a chill zone with relaxing music and nice and polite peoples. Everything need to be clean and that’s all
  54. I am looking to explore male massage and make male/male contact more of a regular part of my life and less intimidating. I’d like slow and intimate exploration.
  55. i have actually compiled over 20 different tantric strokes for the lingam and dragon pearls from over 2 years experience of Tantra retreats, massage classes, videos and channeling.
  56. i  like my lingam(manhood) massaged for 45 minutes, light accidental brushes across my penis. Tantalising until I’m ready to explode. Then oiled long slow strokes while gently massaging my balls also.
  57. With some tender loving care, stroking it all over, with both hands. Teasing at first, building up the tension to maximise the pleasure.
  58. Lightly at first with gentle stokes, more pressure as the massage goes on, i like warm sensual hand starting on my balls working there way up my penis to my head.
  59. Get me hard with light, full-body caresses (and a little tickling), then begin gently stroking my well lubed cock until I’m close, then go back to sensual body contact. Repeat this cycle over and over, until I can’t hold back anymore and climax.
  60. I like to be touched softly. And then deeper and deeper I love body contact especially in the dark
  61. Intimacy through sensual, warm and nurturing touch. To awaken another’s senses and have the same done is a delightful experience to share
  62. strong hands needed to give it a good firm stroke. all the way up and down. I enjoy having my bellend teased in a circular motion. I like a powerful grip on my shaft that moves slow at first and then fast before climax
  63. I enjoy it being massaged in a very caring and intimate way, with care and attention being paid for both comfort and sensuality
  64. Although I have little or no experience about this kind of massage, I am eager to explore my own body in order to learn how to get rid of stress and transform those energies into something profitable for my own. I want to explore my own manhood so as well.
  65. With care and attention … reading how I’m responding as opposed to a prescribed approach.
  66. I want to learn. I want to be stimulated after too many years of overstimulation. I think Tantra is the way but I’m open to discovering other ways. Always drug free and safe.
  67. I do not know if this is just a hand massage but if it is then I would like to be massaged as I have seen in videos. I like oil at some point further on. I would like to feel soft fingertips exploring my manhood from base to tip. My testicles massaged as this happens. I like the idea of a palm encircling the tip and twisting.
  68. First, using subtle touches moving to caressing – then stroking the areas around it before holding it and gently stroking up and down alternating soft and hard strokes, fast and slow – sometimes focusing on different parts of it.
  69. Slowly but passionately. Nothing painful or or aggressive
  70. Sounds interesting and totally up to learn everything about this with others. Open to lay back and enjoy ( I need it ) .. id love to give a massage as much as I’d like to receive.. anybody wanting to teach ?
  71. gently on the head, hands gliding and gripping the shaft. caressing balls
  72. slowly with care and affection, in a tantric and energetic way. with lots of deep breathing and energy circulation
  73. I like to be massaged in a long, slow and purposeful way, with sensuality and warmth, in a safe and naked environment, by caring, open minded men, who are able to give and receive in equal measure.
  74. Agonizingly slowly, lots of lube and oil… buck naked. Sometime blindfolded or restrained.
  75. I would love my manhood massaged slowly I also like a firm grip I will like to learn how to self massage my manhood for maximum effect and willing to try new things with anyone I would like regular practice on my self and others
  76. Tho I respond to sensual touch in every part of my body from top to toe, I acknowledge that there is super-energy to be released by sensitive touch in the erogenous areas closest to my anus, ball-sack and glans.
  77. Hmmmm….I adore the helmet teased by the tip of a to the and circled…ideally while observing a film or other if a huge penis in action
  78. Gently, starting at the tip and finger-touch light. Using the natural juices to lubricate the finger tips as they circle the head. An occasional journey along the underside, cupping the balls before gently massaging the entrance to my arse.
  79. Slowly, mindfully, attentively and without inhibition. Nothing is taboo between friends who want to bring each other pleasure.
  80. I love to almost climax, then stop and repeat several times, then I shoot a huge load. What a fucking incredibly feeling having a big load shoot up your tubes and then all over your, or someone else’s chest or face.
  81. I would like my manhood to be massages slowly and gently with lots of oil. Blowing on my penis also goes a long way in terms of awakening my sexual desires. I want my penis to be touched gently and slowly and engaging in orgasms before I let it go.
  82. Mostly I will have to let go and allow a beautiful amazing man show me how it is done.connecting and believing my body will adapt and include my entire being…
  83. Gentle touch first and then slightly slide foreskin down. Pour lots of lube and start with the tip, moving on to the balls and my legs. It would be great with kissing and licking but not essential.
  84. I like touching and being touched, especially in the gluteus. Less on the penis because I can easily and quickly ejaculate but I guess this can be controlled with practice. In general on the body I prefer strong hands.
  85. By having balls cupped /stroked. Overall a gentle action, not too vigorous. Maybe a knuckle gently massaging the glands on the tip underneath.
  86. Slowly and sensually at first, and then with increasing vigour.
  87. I would like to start by sitting across from one another breathing at the same time looking into each other eye and then from there begin the massage. I’m currently in school to be a massage therapist so this really interested me
  88. My preference would be slow and sensual, although not really analysed it before! only having it done by women before I’m curious as to what it would be like with a man. Even more so giving a massage to another man!
  89. Slow and sensual full body massage using long strokes and pressure on muscle points to fully relax before teasing and exciting.
  90. I love sensual massages and slow and relaxing cock massages. Slow and easy for all involved is vital. I adore sexy men and love getting a good cock massage
  91. By one who is intimately interested in touch with long strokes and sometimes using lube although not required as I prefer my natural lube.
  92. slowly and gently with no lubrication. touching every inch with fingers, thumbs, one hand, both, mouth.
  93. Oiled/ feathered / caressed gently / all the above with latex gloves on adore body contact using oils and lotions
  94. gentle fondling then firmer as hardens then shaft to tip of my cut lingam. Then firm but not tight handling and maybe frottage with another lingam.
  95. Strokes upward, and downward just touching the edge of the head with a turning motion of the wrist.
  96. I like it massaged slowly, with sporadic gliding over the gland. I like it teased rather than pumped. I also like my balls manipulated, as well as the surrounding area.
  97. It varies depending on what I’m feel in that moment, and who’s doing it. I like to have the head of my ‘manhood’ played with, and long hard strokes which hit my balls
  98. I don’t like putting restrictions on myself or others. Better to have an open mind and be ready for all kinds of touch and all body types, shapes and sizes.
  99. The massage needs to be smooth and slow. It has to be sensational and very relaxing. I don’t like too much pressure or rush. I prefer back massage, legs, chest and face.
  100. Would love to explore another level of relaxation and happiness. I’m a big fan of nudism, staying naked, touching exchanges. My manhood massage should be both deep and soft, hot oiled all over, body to body and should provide both/all of us a tremendous level of positive vibes
  101. Slowly at the beginning with increasing strength as well as speed of strokes. A variety of moves including spiral massage and short strokes on the head too
  102. in 2014, I lost my left testicle and because of this my sex drive went down. As a gay man the penis and the balls an important area. I like my manhood massage with baby oil which can give me a little bit of sensation. I would like to find out more!
  103. I would like to have my manhood massaged very slowly and gently to start – caressing, stroking the shaft and balls being played with.
  104. With mutual love and tenderness both to me and from me to spread the energy both in myself and in the other(s) in a form of physical meditation.
  105. with great care and strength, lovingly and carefully so as not to cum to soon
  106. Love when it’s touched slowly all over. From under my balls all the way to my tip. Gets a bit precummy then
  107. Have never had it done, but would love to learn. I would want it to be slow and caressing. Time is taken to build up energy and hold it there for as long as possible.
  108. Kind, sentimental,positive, Slowly, by an nice, sweet lady!
  109. I do not have any particularly one or an specific one, what I would like is to discover and learn more about me and where are the areas where my body can feel different sensations. I would like to have a connection with the person so I can feel relaxed and free while the massage is taking place, so I can enjoy it and let myself and body feel free. For any further questions, feel free to ask me. I’ll be happy to answer them. 🙂
  110. I like to feel strong hands massaging my inner thighs, lifting them slightly to feel my balls and cock from under. I find it very arousing.
  111. Anyway that would be able to release my inner person and make me full of energy and knowledge of my body
  112. well, this would be my first time so I’m just going to go with the flow. But I have an open mind and I’m up for new experiences
  113. Slow and long, with love!
  114. Firm grip with pressure, my foreskin sliding slowly up and down over my glans, being slapped against a hand (or something else …)
  115. Slowly and deliciously
  116. I like it to be done softly, slowly, with sensuality, in different ways like up and down, or holding it with your hand and with your thumb caressing in circles
  117. Stroking of the shaft, palm swirled around the head, thumbs or tongue caressing the glans.
  118. slowly and gently,with a soft touch finger tips
  119. Being uncut my dick head is sensitive so to start oiled fingers exploring my semi erect dick whilst brushing my hanging balls. Once fully erect and throbbing push down towards ball sack and using each hand one at a time long strokes to intense feeling. Being edged is my favorite and I precum alot if you do it right, guys think my precum is my cum but then realise how intense, messy it is when I do, sometimes squirting like a fountain or shooting over head all depends on how you do it
  120. Slowly and sensuously and lovingly with a good almond or grape seed based massage oil.
  121. So I like my manhood, stroked, pulled, twisted, caressed, tickled at the head, below the head, very light touches are also lovely, being licked is nice too. The only thing I don’t like is being sucked which to lots of guys will seem strange. Oh, and I also like to be in control of what is happening, i.e. to be able to say, slow down or stop for a minute etc
  122. i like to have my lingam massaged with TLC and passion
  123. I have a large manhood so starting with long slow strokes are great. Then after working the way round, hard and fast is how I get off.
  124. Long oily strokes, base to tip and back again with balls cupped and softly pulled.
  125. I am very sensitive, and love gentle touch, tickles and strokes.. i am cut and so love my head massaged and edged.. not into pain at all
  126. Slow and sensual long stokes to be brought to the climax several times and build up the energy
  127. Wow! To start, I love slow, light, teasing touch.All over my penis. Then, as i get more erect, I love slowly having my foreskin retracted….very slowly, so I can feel the skin move over my cock head. ..then I love slow teasing to continue–long strokes all the way up and all the wy down, special attention given to my frenulum and the area just under my cock head…then massage my balls to delay my excitement, stroke my shaft to delay as well, and then return to the cock head and do faster shaft strokes.
  128. Love to be massaged, receiving energy and explore all areas. Pleasure and relaxation at the same time.
  129. tenderly, with plenty of love and a dose of the unexpected
  130. Slowly massaged from top to bottom in a bit of circular motion
  131. With gentle touches at the start to stimulate especially around the tip, then more sturdier movements. I love lube too. Great invention!
  132. i love subtle sensations…
  133. slow strokes to begin with covering every square millimetre of my lingam speeding up and love to feel a sucking suction from down deep .
  134. I’d like to be given pleasure and relaxation on mind and body. I ‘d like to free myself and knowing others like me and also please and give massages to others.
  135. Lots of oil, sensual touches, prostate simulation at the same time would be ace!
  136. Long strokes, oiled and building up to a faster and orgasmic ending. 
  137. Slowly and sensual. I’m in for the adventure of the lingam massage and open to what it will do to my desires. I’m usually in control but intrigues by the elements of someone else taking charge of massaging my manhood.
  138. It has to be done gently and mindfully
  139. I like my cock to be massaged slowly with love and respect
  140. Extremely long sensually and erotically. It loves to be massaged by yoni when I’m in the top role.
  141. Gentle touch with some lotion or lube by soft, warm palm. Gradually up and down, not too fast not too slow. I like to be touched from soft to get hard. Gradually feel the whole thing getting bigger and stiffer.
  142. I love it teased, stroked slowly, building up tension and grip and played with a little harder
  143. Gently with eye contact maintained, feeling the warmth of male contact. I enjoy a firm but deep massage, where you feel a real connection and in silence.
  144. Like a massage in briefs at start with hands reaching inside to pull my penis out. Thereafter slow and sensual.
  145. With a hand or hands, mouth or other body parts. I enjoy edging or being edged, getting to the point of orgasm the. Holding back again and again til the explosion is maximized
  146. I enjoy sensual, gentle carressing
  147. I’d like to be given pleasure and relaxation on mind and body. I ‘d like to free myself and knowing others like me and also please and give massages to others.
  148. Gently, sensitively, sensuously. Long slow strokes, from the base up to the tip, then circular around the tip
  149. with care, and with loving touches. stroked gently then switching to a nice tight grip. Rubbing my cockhead with a fingertip swirling my precum around the tip. Touching my manhood from my balls all the way up my shaft – every inch stroked and caressed with one hand or two or even three or four. the more touching the better my manhood feels.
  150. Show me what you like to do. Pay attention to what I enjoy.
  151. Softly with oil. All the way from below scrotum to tip. Make it last. Pull my lingam so that veins bulge and can be caressed. Edging and lasting.
  152. i like to start off just rubbing my foreskin and then the top of my cock, then placing 3 fingers around it and roll it between my fingers, every now and again pushing my fingers down from the top to the bottom, rubbing it harder as i do this, then sliding two fingers up and down the back, then i like to grip the base and pull the pensishard from the base to the top pulling it fully out
  153. Slowly and with sensitivity, accompanied by gentle prostate massage. A firm grip on the release.
  154. Sensitive, by more men in group , lovingly and passionate
  155. Some massage oil can be good…light strokes building to more robust ones…firm hold, squeezing and palpating…
  156. I like the feel of a firm manly hand taking control. Playing and teasing me and taking me to the edge..
  157. I am penis obsessed and enjoy guys into the same. I am very open and willing to partake in different methods
  158. I like a relaxed and slow massage very gentle and slow, Sensual and passionate. Intentionally. Intimately. Imaginatively. jai
  159. Edging and edging with loads of oil with a hand
  160. Slow with coconut oil pulling back the foreskin to relrease pleasure in the helmet and gradually increase the girth by stroking the shaft firmly.
  161. I have always had a negative view of my manhood, as it is not the size that I wished it to be. This has caused me a great deal of stress, throghout- and sometimes still does. I have never had my manhood massaged.
  162. “Having only experienced this a few times and not really fully considered other methods, I have only experienced rough and relatively hard and fast massages. I would like to experience other, more sensual methods. “
  163. Sensibly , delicately, safely, respectfully…not a wank I can do that myself.
  164. Slowely, with a firm hand and gallons of lube.
  165. I like a firm and masculine hold, and more about variability in the grip than speed.
  166. Lightly and firmly, constant and unexpected
  167. “With sensitivity to my needs. Sometimes thats gentle and others more positive and with strength.”
  168. slowly and softly with a twist of a firm grip..
  169. ha very specific. love my nipples caressed to get my manhood hard. playing with the shaft and the sensitive underarea of the penis hole with precum, and massaging them balls good.
  170. In a way that brings pleasure to the one massaging it. I would like to give up control temporarily.
  171. I’d like to receive a very sensual massage involving a very stimulating action on my testicles and shaft: I’m open to explored techniques that may increase the pleasure and sense of relaxation.
  172. Slowly and teasing with lots of edging, ball massage too. Light strokes, alternating rhythm, just under the head. Slowly and around the tip With imagination, sensitivity and creativity.
  173. I would like to feel free and relaxed from social taboos. Explore my bisexuality and feel free for my body and also admire others techniques, knowledge and bodies. I would like to be seen when others massage my manhood and also I might like to be blindfolded or feel the massage from someone who touches- massages my manhood
  174. I have a very sensitive cock so like to be massaged gently with oil or lube (my favourite is jlube as it’s the closest thing to saliva)
  175. slowly, edging to climax, enjoying the journey
  176. I am interested in sensuality and how to learn in a group. Participating in a lot of workshops wherever I go. I already have good basics and tantric massages. But I always discover new techniques with a lot of fun.
  177. intimately. physical contact between men can be wonderful, or a complete waste of time and energy if the is misalignment. that’s why I think it is important to take the time to build the connection and find a way to be comfortable with razor
  178. I would like the massager to make me feel he is in control of my manhood, Plenty of oil and lubrications . He could tease my penis tip which is very sensitive and drive me wild, He is imaginative and exploring my cock once itvis hard. He may also touch other parts of my body.
  179. With warm hands and lots of oil, slow and rhythmic, with occasional caresses to the underside of the scrotum.
  180. OMG, where do u start. slow, teasing caresses, firm deep strokes, stillness. A mix of light and firm touch and stillness. Tenderness and strength.
  181. Slow, enjoyable strokes, cared and caressed. Reflective, respectful, introspective, I like to have your manhood massaged with sound!
  182. I want to be with different people to observe what suits me the best. I want to become a better man based on what my man wants from me.
  183. Gentle tugging and sensual stroking.
  184. I would like my massage therapist to know exactly how my body would respond to touch and feel. I don’t want a sex massage I want energy and orgasm without penetration just knowing how to touch me. Let me allow my energy to flow back into the person treating me so they are also fulfilled.
  185. I’d like for my penis to be touched with a variation of forces and textures, with hands that are firm and slow and can control the twitching and feel the veins and curves around the head. I’d like the hands to continuously take me to the point of finishing so I could revel in the moment.
  186. I love a long slow massage, starting with the geisha, balls , shaft and head long stroking and the use of essential oils
  187. I love to have my lingam massaged lying on my back with my balls resting on my thighs. With your thumb and forefingers encircle my penis. Run your hand up and down the shaft. Let your trailing little finger strokes my balls with each downward stroke. Meanwhile use the thumb and forefinger of your left hand to tweaks my erect nipples to add another delicious sensation to those in my penis. Sometimes, swap hands.
  188. slowly, carefully, with passion and compassion and playfulness, teasing and serious at the same time.
  189. I like to have my balls touch while my manhood is massaged. I prefer more pressure around the head. I also enjoy getting fingered at the same time as my manhood is massaged.
  190. I like to give and receive long slow sensual massage from top to toe spending time over sensual areas that generate verbal and non verbal responses indicating pleasure is building
  191. With a mix of tension, sensual, and with feeling of desire. I want to feel that you are enjoying it.
  192. diverse. find out… do it and see how my body reacts
  193. I love laying down wearing some speedos or a jock knowing that I’m about to have the gentle touch of a man massage me gently. The excitement leading up to the prostate massage is amazing, followed by the most intense orgasm ive ever had in my life.
  194. Gently at first. Don’t rush. But then more firmly, with my balls in play.
  195. I am interested in attending your lingam massage workshops, I am comfortable being naked with others and have received lingam massage over the years of varying qualities from various practitioners but now wish to know more about how it should be done properly
  196. Passionately, soothingly, and authoritatively.
  197. I love giving and receiving, slow sensual massages with warm oil…..loving the light touch between my anus and balls….and all up and down the shaft until my Cock is at it’s full extension and girth……then stroked and twisted until..
  198. First of all softly be fondled, touch a warm tongue. Then touch balls and handle dick. Show round fingers on top. Very soft touches.
  199. The slower the better, tickles under the balls with wet and cold sensation.
  200. Wow!… well… I do enjoy my penis massaged particularly more than anything else, I love when someone can rub it gently for hours… I think for me the most pleasurable thing is having my penis touched by someone else, but only touched softly, as I have a very high sensitivity and having it touched too strongly actually can even hurt, I love tender, soft, slow paced massaging of my genitals, which I could get for hours… the sensation sends shivers all over my body, in a way that relaxes me and puts my mind in heaven… Most times I’m not even interested in it as a form of sex, but just as a form if experiencing that soft relaxing chilling sensation that fills my whole body from the touching or slow caressing and massaging of my genital area, as I explained, it is not a sexual act for me, it is a fulfilling state of mind that relaxes so much, that I avoid it from becoming a sexual thing…

  201. That’s a hard one (no pun intended) for me as it’s been long time since I’ve received such a massage. However I do know that I enjoy the Sensualising Feeling and Sensuality Drawn Out from slow, long, almost teasing manipulation with periods (in minutes/time) of ‘hands off’ then ‘hands on’ activity allowing the pleasure sensations to rise slowly from deep within pausing periodically to gain overall momentum

  202. I like when it get massaged by a man and you can feel his energy, tension and desire. I love when my manhood gets hard and I surrender to the pressur
  203. I love to start with my body being massaged, unhurried firm attentive deep strong, giving my body plenty of attention. While the massage is a release for the muscles, it also feels as if my body is being charged with energy so to then finally move on to my penis makes me feel super charged up and sensitive. A slow, attentive, sensual massage to my penis sends me absolutely wild, it’s can be ecstasy.

  204. I love to start with my body being massaged, unhurried firm attentive deep strong, giving my body plenty of attention. While the massage is a release for the muscles, it also feels as if my body is being charged with energy so to then finally move on to my penis makes me feel super charged up and sensitive. A slow, attentive, sensual massage to my penis sends me absolutely wild, it’s can be ecstasy.

  205. Slowly, gently, tenderly, attentively. I like it when it’s like a meditation for both parties, like a shared hypnotic trance. Be mindful of its wholeness, all the way down to its deep root. Connect the lingam massage energy to the rest of the body, through spreading strokes, pausing at allied sites: The belly, the heart, the hairy parts, the sensitive infolds of the armpit and groin. Sensual, deeply relaxing, recharging.

  206. From the root move up to the entire lingam, hold the lingam then use the thumbs and index fingers to press and release. Use oil or cream to massage circle slowly around the head. Massaging and grazing my inner thigh, my groin, my prostate, my ball. Using oil to touch all the sensual area, press my tight and butt by the fingers.

  207. I want to feel every millimetre. An accidental brush to begin with, a maybe less accidental brush. The anticipation is the most important thing. Feeling something building up, from normal areas to areas that people don’t see, let alone touch. I want to feel new aches appearing in the hope that they can be helped. A light, teasing touch to begin with, and then a firm purposeful massage, with a determination to relieve me of all the aches and pains and needs.

  208. every inch and every part must be touched with care and softness, the body is a temple but we live in our heads.

  209. softly and delicately. if its handled too roughly I can ejaculate to quickly or the the head becomes too sensitive that it feels unpleasant and uncomfortable. also like the scrotum testicles and perineal massaged. if I can Include the anus as part of genitalia (its more sensitive than my penis) I do enjoy that massaged too. I’m not talking about penetration but light touch massage.

  210. I would prefer to be surprised! So maybe blindfolded. Soft touch to begin. Stroke from behind balls and up to shaft with fingers. Then massage my foreskin and start to pull it down to expose my cock head. As I get harder stroke my cock harder and cup my balls and eventually pull on my balls

  211. To me, “touch” is not just putting your hands on someone’s body, but also, to touch them with your eyes by examining every inch of their body, with your ears by listening to their breath and heart beat. Furthermore, to make “touch” deeper and more enjoyable, I feel like the two parties involved must adopt a somewhat ritualistic pattern to their experience. For example, I believe it’s always great to start the session sitting down on the floor facing each other, cross legged with both knees touching and eyes locked, to add trust and intimacy to the session, then move to the more comfortable position, like placing ones head and back to the other man’s chest to give them full control and a deeper connection.

  212. I like to have my manhood massaged by a gentle but firm hand with a light coating of baby oil mixed with my pre-cum, with long slow strokes up and down the penis shaft and teasing the glans, I like to edge and make experience last as long as possible, whilst the shaft is being worked I like my testicles to be gently massaged and a finger massaging my frenulum to heighten the sensation, on ejaculation I like the semen to be massaged into the shaft of my penis.

  213. Slow and sensitive to begin with leading to firm and confident during massage. Kissing the end of my dick is always a bonus and playing with my balls also helps. Being held around the waist with another guy holding my manhood firmly in their hand and kissing my neck gently cupping my balls with his other hand. Two hands coming together of the end of my cock and a wet palm lightly rubbing my bell end. Both hand working the shaft in opposite directions and slowly coming back roger at the centre of my shaft. The top hand rubbing the tip and the bottom rubbing my balls

  214. Using massage oil to oil the shaft of the penis and his testicles. Starting by sliding the hands up and down his thighs before getting to the good stuff. Move onto the testicles . Gently, slowly massage them using the fingernails gently on the testicles, or / and can also cup them in the hands and fondle them in the palm of the hand very gently Vary the grip from harder to lighter. Vary the stroke sequences between straight up and down and a twisting motion focused on the glande

  215. Like someone to take their time, to focus on it and appreciate it. To be slow to start and be purposeful. To have a firm grasp of it and to embrace it. To enjoy seeing the pleasure their touch gives. To explore every part of it.

  216. in a safe environment it would be very empowering to explore massage with other gay men. I believe it would enable a lot of confidence in our bodies in a non judgemental environment…with a touch of fantasy thrown in 😉

  217.  like to begin by being teased and slowly aroused with unhurried sensual strokes around my whole body. This aids the discovery of my more erogenous zones. Once the attention begins to focus on my manhood I like a varied range of strokes, still including other parts of my body. I find that vocalising and mutual eye contact greatly heighten my arousal.

  218. Thinking of my manhood being the whole of me rather than just a part of me. I like the massage to address any physical issues I may have at the time to reduced stress , tension and aches and pains from the gym. I like a slow , firm and sensual massage

  219. Very gentle, extremely slow, going with intuition and flow, feel the pleasure rising. Slower than ever. Imagine that my cock is divided into millions of miniature pleasure zones; each creating sensations of unique and unbelievable power. Make me anticipate a few times. Slowly rub your hand up and down my hard shaft, with lots of oil, then after two or three pulls, come away. Then come back down and do one or two more pulls. Then lift your hand away again. After doing this for what seems like eternity, I am so aroused and excited that either I explode, or beg for more. Make it last. Lock me in a time-vortex all of your own. Enjoy savouring every minute of my pleasure, and your own from pleasuring me. Combine fragility, gentleness, softness, a little aggression and firmness like they are a special, magic incantation.

  220. There’s a lot to be said for sapiosexuality, for connecting on an emotional and spiritual level beyond the intensity that physical pleasure can bring. In any sensual act of massage one receives and the other gives. As the recipient of lingam massage I would be hoping for a permission based meeting of minds as well as the physical pleasure of being caressed and stroked. As the masseur or giver, my intention would be the stimulation of the recipient’s mind as well as the body.

  221. I like the shaft to be held with one hand. Some spit or cream on the head and then the head massaged and rubbed. I also like the eye to be opened and probed a bit. While that is being done I like the hand holding the shaft to be slowly going up and down, giving it a squeeze every now and then, sometimes soft and sometimes hard.

  222. I had the pleasure of receiving a tantric massage about a year ago and it almost blew my mind! I am very sensual and have deep shuddering orgasms and like nothing more than my balls being stroked and carressed after I’ve cum as this makes me cum gain but in a more internal jolting pure pleasure way. It seems when I shoot my load I have a very deep orgasm all my muscles contract them release and my joints crack.

  223. I enjoy a slow and gentle massage with fingertips barely touching it at first which gets faster and harder with more grip over the middle part of it. For me getting my manhood massaged is better with sensual touches on my body. Touch on other parts of my body makes it a lot more pleasurable.

  224. I like to be tantalised first with the lightest body strokes passing by the penis but including my nipples. Gradually my penis becomes involved with feather like strokes from base to tip. Ongoing attention to nipples and perineum as my glans is delicately rubbed with oil. Then gentle two finger rubbing of the shaft just below the glans, and to make the orgasm perfect, a finger massages my prostate.

  225. With a pair of warm hands and plenty of oil, rub and massage the inside of my thighs and groin area. Proceed to oil my shaft and testicles. Slowly and gently massage my balls, pull on them a bit, blow on them. Massage between my ball sack and anus as well as around my testicles including my public bone area. Proceed to massage my shaft I like hard grips, lighter grips and running your nails along it too. Twist when you reach my head, make sure it’s lubed up a lot, I enjoy the sounds too. I like it fast and slow, keep me at the edge, stop then go again. I like to have a couple of finger massaging my prostrate at the same time.

  226. i would like to touched in the way that all my body electricity is actiated. to be able to experince a connection and warmth that is between the love of the mother and father and the sacred birth of myself. i would like to be broth in the space of my very beggining where the innocence of sexual energy rises… i am looking for my source of passion and compassion… the light that starts my interest for Life and Living.

  227. My penis must be treated same as I treat other penises, with absolute focus, finding the ultimate point to pleasure and responsibility. Every single spot must be explored to find the most sensitive one which will become the centre of endless Universe. Once this spot is found the real work begins to concentrate all the energy from other parts of penis to the ultimate act of the Big Bang.The release of the energy will be strong and shared with every one for mutual and perpetual enjoyment.

  228. I’ve only really ever done it well myself but in general slowly, firmly but gently with care and attention given to my cock head and gently to my balls too. I like a full hand wrapped around the stem of my cock which brings up my foreskin to over my cock head and then pulls back but not to fully to it hurts… I have had one guy gently rub the head with lubricant that was incredibly intense but has never really happened since then.

  229. I’ve recently taken a Tantra class and edging. I’m enjoying more about being touched and how to evoke a deeper sensual pleasure in others. The whole experience makes the experience more passionate and less about sex. I love when my penis is stroked slowly from base with of the shaft over my circumscribed head. I can feel a deeper connection and last longer, when my breathing is calm and the other person is reading my cues. I like taking the edging process a little further each time, building up to where my entire body freezes with pleasure and there’s a cathartic release. At the same time – I feel a deeper connection with my massage partner.
  230. I like being touched. I like foot reflexology and scalp massage. I like it to massage my anus, my penis and my prostate. the whole body must be massaged. ejaculation is not an indispensable element of any massage. I like that whoever massages me is naked.

  231. Slow, gentle caresses and light touching. Imaginative, creative movements that extend around and close to the penis and balls avoiding monotonous heavy handed grabbing. Every part of the organ should be touched lightly and in a sensual way.

  232. I like the shaft slowly and carefully stroked from the base to below the head with one or two fingers, then the head stimulated with the fingers, before working the shaft and head faster, gripping it and stroking up and down, especially the underside of the base, sometimes with an almost twisting motion.

  233. Nice and slowly while I’m soft, pinching up and down my shaft, on my head, and playing with my balls. And as I get harder, more rhythmic and vigorous up and down the length of my shaft, rolling on top of my head so that I’m oozing precum and back down the frenulum to cradling my balls.

  234. Mentally with acceptance, praise, encouragement and identification. Physically- slow, soft, gentle, hard and fast, teasing and mutual pleasure. I’d like to experience things I’d never thought of that are memorable and enjoyable. Hope I answered that correctly?

  235. As I transition into older adulthood, I want to begin to draw on the diverse experiences (mental, physical and spiritual) of my past 60 years to expand and enrich my ongoing journey.

  236. I like massage of my manhood to involve a lot of testicle work involving pressure and downward motion. I like the shaft of my penis to be worshipped not just my glands but ultimately I like the underside of my glands to be worshipped especially souring orgasm.

  237. I am interested in experiencing the beautiful congregation of masculine energy and the warm love of brotherhood bonding; in feeling the freedom of nudity and the holistic and wonderful experiences that come along with naturism. I am very in tune with my energy and want to share this with others. I am very empathic and can feel and tune into the spiritual energies of others. I’d like to bring that to the group as well.

  238. I love to have my cock massaged lying on my back with my balls resting on my thighs. With your thumb and forefingers encircle my penis. Run your hand up and down the shaft. Let your trailing little finger strokes my balls with each downward stroke. Meanwhile use the thumb and forefinger of your left hand to tweaks my erect nipples to add another delicious sensation to those in my penis. Sometimes, swap hands.

  239. I am blindfolded, undressed. I am told to lay down I feel hands over my naked body and the cool oil poured over me. They start to tease my taint and I begin to get rock hard as pressure is applied. We work up to the balls a slight tug and then onto the shaft. A little tease of the head before I feel the grasp of the hand, the pressure and motion builds. Then it stops leaving me wanting more.

  240. My understanding is that a Lingam is an abstract or anionic representation of the Hindu Deity Shiva therefore not part of my massage routine. If however you are referring to my cock then slowly and very well oiled!

  241. Carefully, slowly, respectfully accompanied with massage to other parts of my body, tenderly, cheekily, and also enjoy having my manhood massage or touched by another man’s manhood. So I like my manhood, stroked, pulled, twisted, caressed, tickled at the head, below the head, very light touches are also lovely, being licked is nice too. The only thing I don’t like is being sucked which to lots of guys will seem strange. Oh, and I also like to be in control of what is happening, i.e. to be able to say, slow down or stop for a minute etc

  242. For me that usually comes last. I prefer the whole body to be touched caressed massage from head to toe. Definitely love to have someone start on my back, work his way down my body, spending lots of time on my butt, thighs, and all parts surrounding teasing and moving that sexual energy around. Then after flipping over, love to have have my chest, and stomach get attention. Eventually slow touching, caressing running of the manhood without leading me to ejaculate. I prefer to come close but have the sexual energy moved through my body. I prefer that myself and the other man both be naked, and all parts of our bodies are used. I also love to share the same experience with others.

  243.  I would like in the physical sense for my manhood to be massaged: gently, tenderly, delicately, slowly, rhythmically, gracefully, comfortably, physically, cleverly, wonderfully, lovingly, teasingly, contemplatively – and affirmingly. 

  244. I like to feel strong hands massaging my inner thighs, lifting them slightly to feel my balls and cock from under. I find it very arousing. I’d then flip side and have it exposed and I like when someone massages the tip of my cock.

  245. Love long slow strokes and having the head teased with a thumb or finger, making it slick with pre-cum. Love the tip being massaged with the palm. And the golden rule: you can never use too much oil.

  246. I like to have it encompassed in to a whole massage rather than just a straight ‘handjob’, having experience tantric massages before, I like to have the erogenous zones massaged, slowly teasing around my manhood before working the taint, the balls, the shaft and eventually the head, using light strokes, heavy strokes, and a combination of different jerks that bring me ever closer to ecstasy.

  247. ove all touch and body2body contact, starting with gentle touch and leading to firm and deeper strokes. Exploring or being explored is an essential part of any massage. I have many highly sensitised parts that shudder when stroked. More intimate areas being stroked drives me wild which I’ve learned to control for ultimate pleasure.

  248. The following adjectives come to mind when it comes to manhood massaged; sustained, pushing, pulling, pressing, holding, releasing, squeezing, ringing, relaxing, stretching. I’d like to be come more connect with my masculinity, to observe others, to observe myself and understanding myself better.

  249. I like my manhood massaged in many ways. First, it can be done while my cock is soft. Gently caressing the head and working the way down the shaft and then gently squeezing the balls. Once it begins to get erect, massage the shaft up and down while teasing the underside of the head. I love my balls massaged as well. Also the spot just beneath the balls and above the asshole.

  250. slowly, carefully, with passion and compassion and playfulness, teasing and serious at the same time

  251. I love to have my cock massaged lying on my back with my balls resting on my thighs. With your thumb and forefingers encircle my penis. Run your hand up and down the shaft. Let your trailing little finger strokes my balls with each downward stroke. Meanwhile use the thumb and forefinger of your left hand to tweaks my erect nipples to add another delicious sensation to those in my penis. Sometimes, swap hands.

  252. As if I’m a discovery, sensing my body relaxing, sensuous without rushing, manly without roughness, as if its the first time, the only time, as if my body is the most beautiful thing, with joy, with respect, daring to explore what makes me tick, and discover how to make me tick, and better.

  253. Looking to experience the sensual, erotic, uninhibited joy of having the experience of others exploring my entire body in their own manner and allow the experience to fulfill both of our desires. Having someone to slowly and sensually move their hands across my body and all its erotic parts, to stroke with warm oil and gentle long movements.

  254. I’d like to be treated with respect and with a gentle, sensitive touch. I’d like to have my balls tugged and my skin pulled forward over my head until my cock becomes firm. Once it is hard, I’d like to have the shaft stroked with a firm grip. Alternate between pulling my skin over my head with as much force as possible and stroking the shaft all while tugging on my testicles. I am open to new manhood massage experiences, and I would like to feel the pleasures that brothers can evoke.

  255. Let your heart and spirit speak through your hands. There’s a tendency when people have done a cock massage “course” of some kind for the actions to be mechanical and by rote. By all means use all the techniques it’s possible to learn, but remember that manhood massage is about connection and emotional release, not just about sensation.

  256. For me that usually comes last. I prefer the whole body to be touched caressed massage from head to toe. Definitely love to have someone start on my back, work his way down my body, spending lots of time on my butt, thighs, and all parts surrounding teasing and moving that sexual energy around. Then after flipping over, love to have have my chest, and stomach get attention. Eventually slow touching, caressing running of the manhood without leading me to ejaculate. I prefer to come close but have the sexual energy moved through my body. I prefer that myself and the other man both be naked, and all parts of our bodies are used. I also love to share the same experience with others.

  257. My preference would be slow and sensual, although not really analysed it before! only having it done by women before I’m curious as to what it would be like with a man. Even more so giving a massage to another man!

  258. long strokes with the hood pulled back and the head rubbed gently and roughly in equal measures
  259. I love to have my manhood massaged in a way that makes me feel present to the man that I am and the man or men that are massaging. Makes me feel that there is space for me to be myself even more so than before the touch began. I like being touch with firmness and lightness.
  260. Light strokes to arouse the penis. When erect, oily fingers stroking it from base to tip, pinching lightly at top. Grip it and gently pull foreskin down to reveal full head. Gently circle with finger on top of head to release juice. Long up and down strokes as well as alternating hands fully wrapped around penis. If allowed, gently kiss the base, head and testes, licking with tongue to give erotic massage.

  261. To slowly lightly touch, fluff and massage from the base of the phalange to the tip of the glands. To massage the glands in circular motion the glands with attention to the corona. I want the whole body to be involved in the process, from head to too! Touch and sedation everywhere!

  262. I’d like it to be close and intimate. Faces touch, bodies close and feel the warmth. Then I’d like sensual touching, maybe hear the breathing, massage my hips, butt, and wherever else before you get to my penis. If I am pre-cumming, you are doing well! Never had a massage before just to note. Sometimes though I’d like to get it probably have noticed I am more of a submissive guy who’d like to give pleasure and that kind of gets me off as well.

  263. I believe that everybody you will ever meet will be able to teach you something. I’m an extensive traveller and will never stop wanting to explore the world. I have extremely flexible hips. I like my cock massaged by candlelight. Starting of relaxing and slowly building to a deeper massage with a firm grip and trimmed nails.

  264. Slowly and teasing with lots of edging, ball massage too. Light strokes, alternating rhythm, just under the head. Slowly and around the tip With imagination, sensitivity and creativity.

  265. “Having only experienced this a few times and not really fully considered other methods, I have only experienced rough and relatively hard and fast massages. I would like to experience other, more sensual methods. “

  266. I want you to take more time checking in with me personally and not assume my penis is like most other mens’ penises. I want you to use OIL ! I like to listen to Chillstep or melodic Asian Trip Hop while having the massage. I want you to include my nipples, I like my balls actually held, not massaged. I will give you lots of instructions.

  267. In short, sensitively and with respect. My tantric experiences so far have taught me the benefits of involving the whole body in sensual experiences and not just particular parts of it. Through waking up the whole body, less becomes more when it comes to touch.

  268. Any way that evokes a long-term sense of empowerment four hand lovingly stroking my man hood to ejaculation is a divine pleasure. firm hands on my manhood is the best I’m cut so concentrate on the shaft. However the odd thumb stroke around the piss slit and frenulum is nice hard and fast.I need my manhood massage to be a part of a whole body massage and aim to feel rejuvenated rather than relaxed at the end. Getting an erection is part of the process of stimulation but I do not want the proverbial ‘happy ending’ of ejaculation. Sexual energy is circulated around the whole of my body by the masseur with careful long, firm, massage strokes – some fast, some slow. Stimulation by oiled fingertips under the penis head (sometimes described as ‘squeezing a lemon’) works for me. Pressing the fingertips behind the balls is a wonderful stimulant and can become stronger as the massage progresses. Stimulation of my nipples goes right to the centre of my nervous system but don’t treat nipples like dials on an (old fashioned) radio. Making circular movements around the nipples using the tip of the index finger achieves the effect in a slow, teasing way.

  269. I like to connect with myself, my energy and inner personality. I enjoy exploring my male sexual identity and connecting spiritually with other males as we share that same sexual identity. This is part of learning to love yourself and others. Many especially in the West are unsure of their own sexual energy and have lost the spiritual dimension to their sexuality. Understanding and releasing this spiritual energy takes you way beyond the merely physical or biological and helps you not only understand yourself better, but also takes you beyond yourself into a deeper experience of love.

  270. I love a soft cock and to have mine massaged with subtle touches would be heaven. I especially would love to be massaged in front of many naked men with any precum fed back to me. Very slowly and very gently. I enjoy finger tip massage.

  271. I like to have an emotional connection with the person giving me a massage. i like hard thorough massage that is done slowly over a long period of time. i like to feel the energy build up. i like the massage to be done with a lot of passion and care. i like it to be a mix between sensual and hard. i want the buildup to be very strong and very powerful leading up to a very climatic end that lasts forever and ever and ever

  272. I am big, 8 inches so love having a two-handed massage too, quite firm, leading to orgasm. I also love light feathery touches which can really make my cock twitch and throb. I’m keen to find out about other methods, I quite like the idea of pulling the shaft skin back quite tightly to increase the intensity of the massage at the knob. I have ejaculated quite far in the past doing this.

  273. I like soft long strokes from base to tip. Circling my head then back to the base, carrying on down to my balls, gent king coupling my balls. I do like to use a lot of oil during the massage

  274. Not too rough, but quite sensual. I don’t mind taking it slow or of there are a few tricks up your sleeve I’d be more than happy for you to demonstrate. Focus on the tip and the balls. Firm massage of the balls and delicate touches at the tip. 

  275. sensual, gentle, connected, intimate, warm, kind, oily, light touch with pressure where it is needed, deep tissue, body contact, unspoken temptation, desire, feeling safe and connected, not thinking about time, relaxed, friendship, brotherhood, love

  276. No prescriptions here. Light and respectful , sometimes slow and firm, and always in the context of the wider body – abdomen/torso/ neck/ feet/ears and toes “. I love my manhood massaged with a strong but caring touch, eye contact and lots of inner connection, long slow two-handed stroking of my shaft and gently rubbing of my knob head. Then slowly working into a harder grip with faster strokes. 

  277. Feather touch strokes, tease me, building up to a more sensual touch. Then I like my manhood to be sensually handled and rubbed gently. A bit of pressure is good and I like my scrotum being fondled gently. Then I like it to be slowing stroked, from the head down, then increasing in firmness as it gets hard, pushing on my balls as u stroke, using both hands and oils, as I have lots of precum, also like that to be used, then with a full body orgasm as my seed shoots out.

  278. Long strokes, oiled and building up to a faster and orgasmic ending. With gentle touches at the start to stimulate especially around the tip, then more sturdier movements. I love lube too. Great invention!

  279. I like my whole body to be seen as my Manhood, and therefore I can experience very heightened feelings of Kundalini throughout my whole body in an highly aroused and erotic way, extending well beyond ejaculation or just my cock. I want some open minded people to try things out with.

  280. with focussed understanding, caring about the journey as much as reaching the destination.

  281. Slow and gentle at first with soft lingering touches. With 1 and then 2 hands touching different parts of me at the same time. Not too fast but continuously and building up to something amazing!
  282. with intensity and gentleness in a way that makes my manhood feel understood, appreciated, challenged and possessed
  283. a tight squeeze grip around the head by thumb, & 2nd finger roll around the back of the head where the skin connects to the urethra & first finger over the top of the urethra.

  284. Slow, watching the fella have a go at it for me – with my hands behind my head enjoying it

  285. I like to be teased by the fingernails and slowly stroked up and down just before the point of climax. Then stop and start. It’s amazing

  286. I like my manhood massaged as I would massage another’s: with respect and compassion for the both of us.

  287. Sensibly , delicately, safely, respectfully…not a wank I can do that myself

  288. Slowly, and fully without inhibition. Massaging men is best when we accept it is intimate and communicative and affectionate. We are giving and receiving pleasure on every level and that must be the goal.

  289. Slow,enjoyable strokes with oil, long firm strokes from the tip to the base, impacting my balls, getting faster as I respond to the pleasure, then slow to extend the pleasure, cared and caressed.

  290. Both gently, almost where I can barely feel the touch to quite vigorous and firm – really enjoy feeling the strength in another mans hands working away

  291. I like my cock massaged slowly, gently with plenty of oil, Just the tips of the fingertips at first and working around the whole area before slowly more firmly; balls and other parts massaged too to bring me to climax

  292. Slowly, mindfully, and attentively. Every moment bringing pleasure to another person should be savoured and appreciated. I enjoy other sensual body areas being massaged alongside my manhood and I like to generously return pleasure I receive. 

  293. I like to touch and be touched sensuously and lovingly. I like a highly sensual experience with my manhood massaged with care and sensitivity. Slow light touches, with lots of oil, balls cupped and the entire shaft and glans rhythmically slowly massaged.

  294. While massageing my cock use both hands one on top of the other so that my whole dick is getting attention and then as im about to cum stop and then, using the palm of your hand, massage the head of my dick until its unbearable and i wank fast and cum all over the place (Jacob McManus)

  295. By guys, with oil (olive oil is fantastic, especially if oral is also involved) long firm, hard strokes that go right down the shaft.

  296. starting very slowly and gradually increasing the grip and working from the base to the tip with oil not forgetting the sack and anal passage, these are all to enhance the deep penetration of the massage technique and enjoyment.

  297. I am a grower rather than a shower, so you need to take your time to really discover my entire beauty

  298. i like my cock massaged in all sorts of ways that emphasise love, connectedness and longevity.

  299. Senior, fit, curious, I like my manhood massage related to other parts of my body – engorgement is not just about my dick. uncut but head likes pressure. play with foreskin – it’s nice and loose. tug my balls

  300. 50 year old guy positive, polite, smart, accepting. I like to have my manhood massaged slowly and with passion; like it is being worshiped

  301. Shape your arm into a chicken wing, and put my well greased knob between your  forearm and bicep. Close tightly and flap your arm life a chicken, when you think I am about to spoof, pull away. Repeat many times using many different rhythms

  302. mmm,thats a BRILLIANT question;) Usually like to be totally nude, warm coconut oil all over my nude body & manhood. just getting it stroked slowly with long sensual strokes:)

  303. I enjoy having my exposed frenulum gently rubbed to climax.

  304. I like a nude sensual massage to start with me on my front, concentrating on my buttocks and thighs. As I roll over the masseur can see my big erect cock. Using hands and mouth he rolls back my foreskin, then strokes up and down my shaft,
  305. I need the penis massage to be a part of a whole body massage and aim to feel rejuvenated rather than relaxed at the end. Getting an erection is part of the process of stimulation but I do not want the proverbial ‘happy ending’ of ejaculation. Sexual energy is circulated around the whole of my body by the masseur with careful long, firm, massage strokes – some fast, some slow. Stimulation by oiled finger tips under the penis head (sometimes described as ‘squeezing a lemon’) works for me. Pressing the finger tips behind the balls is a wonderful stimulant and can become stronger as the massage progresses. Stimulation of my nipples goes right to the centre of my nervous system but don’t treat nipples like dials on an (old fashioned) radio. Making circular movements around the nipples using the tip of the index finger achieves the effect in a slow, teasing way.

  306. I like my cock massaged as part of getting everything else massaged….. Deliberately and with joy, slowly tenderly lots of massage of the scrotum

  307. I like it to be done slowly and gently to start massaging all over the shaft and head and right down to my balls, some nice massage oil on there to help it slip nicely, have a few guys massaging me at once
  308. Being very sensitive I would like the massage to be gentle and stimulating. The massager should enjoy the massage as much as me from start to finish. Slow and focused with intention of giving pleasure to my ‘manhood’
  309. That’s a hard one (no pun intended) for me as it’s been long time since I’ve received such a massage. However I do know that I enjoy the Sensualising Feeling and Sensuality Drawn Out from slow, long, almost teasing manipulation with periods (in minutes/time) of ‘hands off’ then ‘hands on’ activity allowing the pleasure sensations to rise slowly from deep within pausing periodically to gain overall momentum.
  310. I am very tactile, and I like soft touches when finger barely touch my skin. The gentler the better.
  311. Uncut so like the foreskin pushed down to expose the sensitive shaft which should be held tightly and moved quickly up and down to create a sexual excitement. The tip of the penis feels amazing and so sensitive to touch. Foreplay is good too !!

  312. I’m open-minded, respectful of others but also assertive when appropriate. I like my cock massaged slowly and gently with a good sense of rhythm

  313. slowly with oil, paying most attention to the helmet , tantric lingam style

  314. I enjoy the sensual feeling. I enjoy fingers sweeping on my genital area gently and slowly. I also like my ass tickled. My nipples are very sensitive as well. A long term session is preferred
  315. Happy, generous and optimistic. I like to have your manhood massaged Slowly and with feeling. I make a lot of pre-cum so use it to get myself more excited. I tend to come quickly so slow the massage several times.

  316. Hi, The up and down figure of 8 motion is simply the pinnacle of all penis massage techniques

  317. naked and oiled but always hope to give and receive the ultimate ‘gift’ of male release. I have no problem with safe massage and group or one 2 one release and male massage with relaxed mutual relief of the lingam massage achieved by my giving the recipriant and by receiving the same experience

  318. Sensual slow massage with perineal stimulation

  319. I love to fully relax during a massage but Know that this is hard to get when you receive a massage the first time from a new masseur in an unknown environment. I definitely enjoy both being fully naked during the massage, the receiving and the giving part. And I like it when any cm of the body is included but it shouldn’t be jus a rub, rather a very slow process of skin meeting skin.
  320. Medium grip, upward strokes of the shaft, starting from the middle, and having my balls gently tickled

  321. Creative , safe , indulgence, caring, loving and passion.

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