Massaging the penis is a prayer. The first one I have ever had was by a woman. She took her time. It was wonderful! I felt blessed. I was young. 21 years old, and still called myself bisexual…at 40 I came out as gay…finally. There is something about having my penis massage by another man. He knows what he is doing. Usually! And if he uses too much pressure and needs coaching, I’ll tell him how to do it the way I like it best.