In the days before the event we would ask you to do a random act of loving kindness as we will be using that energy for our meditational touch during our slow dancing undressing ritual. The slow sensual respectful penis massage blessings included in the ritual are from the A-Z of Lingam Massage. Please bring a small item you no longer need. As this will be placed on our altar before our celebration begins. This can be a book, a cd, a lucky penny, anything. We invite you to take another item home.
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Anointing and Awakening : To begin use the very tips of your fingers lightly and slowly to massage his scalp. Gradually bring that touch right down his body to his feet. Use one hand to bring that touch back up to his perineum where you can rest your fingers and vibrate them slightly. Use your other hand to let the oil trickle down gently all over his cock and balls like little raindrops. You cannot use too much oil.
Breathe Blessing : You should encourage him to breathe deeply throughout the ritual, huge big deep breathe alternating to a more relaxed. It is important to breathe in unison with him. Use your hands to rub and warm up his upper legs as you bring your breathe blessing to about 2 inches above his penis. Blow your breathe slowly up and down the shaft before lingering around the frenelum and then on to the crown.
Cock Cuddles : Put your hand together in the praying position(palm to palm) and place them just above the man’s penis. Rub your hands together to create a deep heat in your hands. Now use this head to cuddle your hands around the man’s cock. In Tantra this is Called Shishna Dedication, and there are 2 basic types. one where you cuddle your hand together around the crown and as far down as your hands can go, and the other where you use one hand one to cuddle the shaft and the other to cuddle his bollocks, as shown below.
Guidelines For Men Attending
We HAVE creating a very special space where every man is absolutely accepted for who he is. In this sacred space we don’t judge anyone or say or do anything that would make anyone feel in anyway uncomfortable.
YOU ALWAYS GET TO CHOOSE WHO TOUCHES YOU. Touching anyone without permission is not only extremely bad manners, it is also illegal.
Everything that happens in a group is absolutely confidential to that group. You’re welcome to tell others about the event but you should not discuss anything about a particular person who attended.
Many of our celebration workshops include lingam massage, but there is absolutely clear understanding not to engage in sexual acts.
It is absolutely fine to have an erection, and it is absolutely fine not to have.
Please arrive with your energy intact: do not attend under the influence of any drugs, including alcohol.
The reason this agreement is made is so that men can bi-pass the ordinary outline or script that is often programmed into us and so that you can leave with the same sexual health that you arrived with.